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"A great writer in the purest sense...makes my head bop from side to side."
"People are like, "Well it's not standard English." So what? Standard English is for standard people."
"Who else is there to write for, as far as Iâm concerned. Iâd rather go ahead and tap into these kids, who still are malleable, but who also have insight into things that we donât know, with vision that we no longer have; who have imaginations that have already been zapped from us."
"I get to whisper to them, "I love you, I see you, I know. I know you're scared, and it's OK to be scared, and if you can't be scared out there you can be scared in here. Within the pages of this book, you can be who you wholly are." And perhaps that might be empowering enough to at least add a bit of significance to their lives."
"I love these kids. Iâm just here to bear witness to their lives, because I believe that it is in bearing witness that everything is made real."
"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."
"I don't expect it to be easy, but I'm certain it will be fruitful. My mission is to take a different approach: Instead of explicitly encouraging young people to read, my goal is to get them to see the value in their own narratives â that they, too, have a story, and that there's power not just in telling it, but in the opportunity to do so."
"It's hard to be what you can't see."
"The truths are universal: Every kid knows fear. Every kid knows family and friendship. Loss, love, laughter. Everything else is just detail."
"Hip-hop saved me,. It gave me permission to use language in a certain way. It validated my community and my friends. It gave our slang a certain elegance. I have a chip on my shoulder I pet every morning, a constant feeling like I have something to prove. Hearing that the canon canât be diversified, thereâs no room for more brown facesâthat fueled my fire. I loved music that people said was not music, that it was too violent, too crass, too sexual. And now everyone in the world is rapping Hamilton."
"It totally matters to me that teenagers think I'm cool. I mean, teens keep their fingers on the pulse of culture. When things shift, it's usually because they shift them. They call the shots. So if teenagers think I'm cool, then hopefully they'll want to get down with whatever I'm doing. My hope is that reading and writing becomes the new "waiting in line to buy Jordans.""
"My uncle used to say that the good books begin with â⌠and shots rang out.â Shots rang out is a clichĂŠ, but what he meant is that no one has time for you to get us to the minefield. Drop us in the midfield in the beginning. Drop us off in the mix and you can move backward and forward from there. End in the mix. Donât answer any questions. Leave me in the muck at the end, too. There can be less muck, but all the loose ends shouldnât be tied up. There should be something unreconciled. Thatâs life. Nobodyâs life is tied up in a bow. Stories that end in a bow are kind of disrespectful to the reader. If you want your story to be compelling, let it fade to black without reconciliation."
"Iâm proud of young black america. Iâm proud of them, even if they are misunderstood. Iâm proud of them for using their voices, their way. Racism, classism, fear, it all exists. Still. Itâs here, embedded into the fibers of our society. But I have to be honest, I do believe that because of technology, no matter how problematic it can be, and the rapid spreading of information, Iâd like to believe there is a slow awakening occurring, and that our babies, or at least the generation after them will have a very different reality here. I know my role is to do what so many have done before me in this tradition â tell the stories, unashamed and unafraid."
"âŚAnd I just remember the pain â the pain of the lost friend but also the pain of meeting a part of myself that I didnât know existed. A part of myself that could lose control to the point where I could commit a murder. Thatâs a very human thing. I think that most of us donât ever meet that part of ourselves that exists within all of us. This rage that, when triggered, will cause you to do things that you donât necessarily understand that youâre doing."
"âŚYoung people â especially young men â itâs not that they hate reading, itâs that they hate boredom. So my thing was: I need to write a story that is interesting, that is gripping, that can connect to them and their experiences, and write something thatâs not very intimidating, because thereâs so much white space."
"More recent writers who have knocked me dead include Roberto BolaĂąo, Ruth Ozeki, Sabrina Vourvoulias, Isabel Quintero and N. K. Jemisin."
"Sometimes thereâs nothing better in the world than talking to another creative person about where you are, because you may feel like youâre floating in outer space a lot of the time."
"It doesnât get any less scary. All that happens is that you have less life left. It helps if you do your falling early, and it really helps if you do your reaching early."
"The thing about sexual assault and the narrative that gets played out so often is that itâs a deadlock. Itâs what one person said vs. what another person said. Itâs just that my personal experience as a survivor is incredibly muddied. I was very young and had such a crush on the person. I willingly obliged so many preambles to The Moment. I felt incredibly complicit. My self-gaslighting was so sustained and calcified that I wasnât entirely sure if it âcounted.â At the time it wasnât something I would ever have felt secure declaring as assault if the burden of proof lay with me recounting everything about my intentions vs. the other personâs. We talk about consent and itâs important to define, but itâs never this hard and fast yes/no pact thatâs then committed to the stenographerâŚ"
"Living on the hyphen is a complex cultural existence at times, and weâre often pulled in many directions where allegiance is always demanded. It is a fractured state of being, though I donât think itâs necessarily bad; at least the having multiple ways of looking at life-the Mexican and American/the male and female. Where that goes awry is when we want to make one way of approaching life, The One Way. Thatâs where things begin to disintegrate, loyalties are questioned, and patriarchies are bornâŚ"
"This negation of our existence, and the omitting of our stories and histories, is one of the reasons I write â I write to exist. We cannot escape our past; our past determines what choices we make for the future. It determines how we act, how we see ourselvesâŚ"
"Taking time to color in the people around your main characters truly does a lot of heavy lifting for you in terms of subtext and context because tiny misunderstandings and micro-aggressions or avoidance speaks volumes without requiring so much expositionâŚ"
"Itâs easier for me to point out what makes bad literature: forced language, too much description, poor word choice, writing things just for shock value, shitty plots, clichĂŠs, lack of research, lazy writing, people who are trying to write âdiverselyâ for the sake of diversity. Good literature is the opposite of thatâŚ"
"When I started writing, it was a way to understand my own adolescence, and what came out was a revelation about my own teenage years..."
"Nonfiction is supposed to drive home a point. In fiction, you need more nuance, buried in layers. There is character development and plot, and that switch can be tricky. I really like writing short stories, and I wish they were more popular..."
"Nonreaders. Especially Nonreaders of Color. Which I didnât even realize until so many of them started contacting me. I write for them because I think itâs important to read, and yet I also understand that when youâve never really seen yourself if the type of stuff youâre assigned, reading seems kinda wack [sic]. So I wanna hook the reluctants and get them started reading for enjoyment.âŚ"
"It is an American story. And itâs a Mexican story. Iâm the child of immigrants. Being the child of immigrants is always this liminal space of, where do I fit in? It is complex. And the older I get, the more complex it becomes. I was born here. What I celebrate is the America that I grew up inâitâs very brown, itâs very MexicanâŚ"
"The dialogue. I love writing dialogue and using that particular element of narrative to draw out the heart of a story because storytelling as a discipline really began with speechâstories orally passed down, generation to generation. Dialogue is just my most favorite thing. In all the stuff Iâve written actually."
"Ever since my first novel, people have had quite a snippy vibe about YA, and itâs almost like: âDo you think one day youâll write a real book?ââŚ"
"I was desperate to write a trans character for whom it wasnât really an issue. After you come out, after the initial makeover and being on hormones for a few years, what happens next? Thatâs a story nobody tellsâŚ"
"My view is that despite the law being very clear, actually, a few very determined transphobes have crawled their way to the heart of the law like maggots in an apple."
"Brands have to put their money where their mouth is when it comes to diversityâŚDonât hire a black woman or a trans woman or a disabled woman and then get cross if they have opinions about their colour or their gender or their disability. The danger is if youâre hired just to be pretty but then you start having opinions about abortion, then youâre gonna get dropped. And of course you should be able to do both."
"I donât think California is perfect by any means. Iâm sure there are a lot of people being oppressed here and not getting a fair shake. But I just feel like maybe itâs the weather, maybe itâs the location on the coast with access to all of Asia coming in and the strong immigrant communities here, that makes it differentâŚI feel like in the East Coast, thatâs still a thing in certain classes. That said, there are a lot of wealthy people here in California. Thereâs definitely segregation and classes in Los AngelesâŚ"
"There are so many stories to tell â weâre just as varied in experiences as white men, and it doesnât look like people are sick of those stories yet. And Iâm lucky enough to be in a position to tell these stories and share them."
"I think there are a lot of gay men out there who are gay men as a consolation prize because they couldn't be women. That was certainly true of me."
"The character doesnât have to be exactly like them, but as an author you have to give something to the reader that shows the vulnerability and where the characterâs coming fromâŚYou can have characters do awful things, but you make them relatable or have some kind of backstory that makes their actions, even if itâs not excusable, understandableâŚ"
"I just wanted to get f****d like a woman. That's what it's about. Itâs not about what hole it's going in."
"I think that when youâre a teen, you can be overwhelmed with change. Youâre expected to be ready for adulthood, to know what you want to do with the rest of your life, to have mature relationships. But itâs only been like 2.5 years since you had braces, or got your period, or stopped playing with Barbies! So I think itâs easy to retreat into apathy and fear and to not try. Because trying means you can fail and be embarrassedâand those are two things that are literally the worst when youâre in high schoolâŚ"
"The publishing world tends to focus more on the âyoungâ, less on the âadultâ. But I spend lots of time with teenagers and theyâre truly the broadband generation. Theyâve been online all their lives and seen things that would make milk curdle: beheadings, graphic violence, hardcore porn. Shielding them is never going to work. What makes this book YA is that it tackles issues in a non-judgmental way. We know these things exist, so letâs talk about themâŚ"
"Look, I can't speak for all trans women, but I just want to live my life the way I always imagined it. I have become the version of myself I wanted to be when I was four."
"I have the same choices over my life and body that I would want for every single person on earth. Iâm not trying to make a statement about what a woman is, I just want to be one. I don't really care if someone thinks that is biologically impossible; I've got near enough to be wholly satisfied. I am happy."
"âŚShort stories still require a similar amount of lead-up time (sometimes they spend several years in my head) but once I sit down to write I finish within a few days, and have never needed to redraft or heavily revise. I love short stories. They are perfect, crystallized moments. Snapshots of lifeâŚ"
"âŚYou might think itâs harder to come up with something from the ground up. And funnily enough, real-life settings seem to have their mystical way of kind ofâŚworking out. If you need an alley for something to happen and youâre thinking of a particular place, strangely enough, you usually find it. You usually find something workable that you can do. Thereâs a little less pressure, I will say, having made up something, versus trying to do justice to the place that actually exists."
"âŚKnowing the end. Knowing the rest. I like unanswered questions, and I donât really believe in endingsâŚ"
"âŚI canât get away from violence and gore. Every fantasy I write will be dark, and disturbing in places. Thatâs what I like in my fantasy."
"I feel like, as a person of color, Iâve always been kind of doing the work against the tideâŚI feel like change is coming, and change sometimes comes too slow for a lot of us. But it comes."
"I want it to be there for the people who need it. I donât want anyone to walk through the world feeling invisible ever again."
"So many black kids are put in that position, so I wanted to show that there is no one way to talk black. There is a stereotype that if you sound ghetto, and you use a lot of slang, that makes you black. I wanted to show this girl who exists in these two different worlds. Which Starr is the real Starr? There are so many adults who identify with that, too. I went through it myself when I was in collegeâŚ"
"I realized the more specific the story, the more universal it becomes."
"The South was very segregated. I mean, all through my childhood, long after Jim Crow was supposed to not be in existence, it was still a very segregated South. And the town we lived in - Nicholtown, which was a small community within Greenville, S.C. - was an all-black community. And people still lived very segregated lives, I think, because that was all they had always known. And there was still this kind of danger to integrating. So people kind of stayed in the places - the safe places that they had always known."