Women Activists From The United States

"So, so what? I'm still a rock star, I got my rock moves, And I don't need you. And guess what, I'm having more fun. And now that were done, I'm gonna show you tonight I'm alright, I'm just fine. And you're a tool. So, so what? I am a rock star, I got my rock moves. And I don't want you tonight."

"I'm safe, Up high. Nothing can touch me. But why do I feel this party's over? No pain, Inside. You're like protection. How do I feel this good sober?"

"Alright sir, Sure I'll have another one, it's early. Three olives, shake it up, I like it dirty (dirty). Tequila for my friend it makes her flirty (flirty). Trust me. I'm the instigator of underwear, Showing up here and there uh oh (oh no). I'm always on a mission from the get go. So what if it's only 1 o'clock in the afternoon? It's never too soon to send out all the invitations to the last night (of your life)."

"Dear Mr. President, Come take a walk with me. Let's pretend we're just two people And you're not better than me. I'd like to ask you some questions If we can speak honestly.What do you feel when you see All the homeless on the street? Who do you pray for at night Before you go to sleep? What do you feel When you look in the mirror? Are you proud?"

"Go away, Give me a chance to miss you. Say goodbye, It'll make me want to kiss you. I love you so Much more when you're not here, Watchin all the bad shows, Drinking all of my beer.I don't believe Adam and Eve Spent every goddamn day together. If you give me some room, there will be room enough for two."

"Baby, Oh the secret's safe with me. There's nowhere else in the world that I could ever be. And baby don't it feel like I'm all alone? Who's gonna be there after the last angel has flown And I've lost my way back home? I think nobody knows, no. I said nobody knows. Nobody cares.It's win or lose, not how you play the game. And the road to darkness has a way Of always knowing my name. But I think nobody knows, No no. Nobody knows, no no no no."

"This used to be a funhouse, But now it's full of evil clowns. It's time to start the countdown. I'm gonna burn it down down down; I'm gonna burn it down."

"I'm not here for your entertainment. You don't really want to mess with me tonight. Just stop and take a second. I was fine before you walked into my life. 'Cause you know it's over Before it began. Keep your drink, just give me the money. It's just you and your hand tonight."

"I've been the girl with her skirt pulled high, Been the outcast never running with mascara eyes. I see the world as a candy store With a cigarette smile saying things you can't ignore."

"Why was I the last to know That you weren't coming to my show? You coulda called me up to say good luck, You coulda called me back, you stupid fuck."

"No attorneys To plead my case. No orbits To send me into outta space. And my fingers Are bejeweled With diamonds and gold. But that ain't gonna help me now."

"Get this party started on a Saturday night, Everybody's waitin' for me to arrive. Sendin' out the message to all of my friends, We'll be lookin' flashy in my Mercedes Benz. I got lotsa style, got my gold diamond rings, I can go for miles if you know what I mean. I'm comin' up so you better you better get this party started. I'm comin' up so you better you better get this party started."

"You fight about money, 'bout me and my brother. And this I come home to, this is my shelter. It ain't easy growin' up in World War III, Never knowin what love could be, you'll see. I don't want love to destroy me like it has done my family."

"How many times have you sat across from me? And how many times have you told me you were leaving? I'm not trying to listen cuz it's all the same. And why, why are you constantly believing That I, I could ever give you what you needed? Baby, baby please don't put your faith in me."

"When I'm happy I am sad, but everything's good It's not that complicated, I'm just misunderstood."

"Everyday I fight a war against the mirror. I can't take the person starin' back at me. I'm a hazard to myself.Don't let me get me. I'm my own worst enemy. Its bad when you annoy yourself, So irritating. Don't wanna be my friend no more. I wanna be somebody else. I wanna be somebody else, yeah."

"That's when you can build a bridge of light. That's what turns the wrong so right. That's when you can't give up the fight.That's when love turns nighttime into day. That's when loneliness goes away. That's when you gotta be strong tonight. Only love can build us a bridge of light."

"Maybe if I act like that, that guy will call me back. What a Paparazzi girl, I don't wanna be a stupid girl. Baby if I act like that, flipping my blond hair back, Push up my bra like that. I don't wanna be a stupid girl."

"I’ve always felt that animals are the purest spirits in the world. They don’t fake or hide their feelings, and they are the most loyal creatures on Earth. And somehow we humans think we’re smarter—what a joke. Every time I had to do a report or a debate in school, I would research the topic of animal rights. I was horrified to find the cruelty and pain that they were forced to endure at our hands. … I aspire to have a lot of land one day, where I will rescue and board many animals."

"I can't stay on your life support, there's a shortage in the switch. I can't stay on your morphine, cuz its making me itch. I said I tried to call the nurse again but she's bein' a little bitch. I think I'll get outta here, where I canRun, just as fast as I can, To the middle of nowhere, To the middle of my frustrated fears. And I swear, you're just like a pill. Instead of makin' me better, you keep makin' me ill. You keep makin' me ill."

"If someone said three years from now You'd be long gone, I'd stand up and punch them up, Cause they're all wrong. I know better, 'Cause you said forever, And ever. Who knew."

"When I first appeared, people couldn't figure out whether I was gay, straight, black, white or whatever, and I loved that. I loved the fact it scares people."

"Once you figure out what respect tastes like, it tastes better than attention. But you have to get there."

"Her peers have praised her publicly. Philip Roth called her a "genuine writer of prose," and Herbert Gold, "an exciting writer." Susan Sontag, perhaps selling short Paley's deliberate artistry, called her "a rare kind of writer"-a "natural." Donald Barthelme said simply she was "wonderful.""

"On the literary front, Grace Paley is the nation’s — one of the most acclaimed writers in the nation."

"(What moves you most in a work of literature?) I’m not yet the writer I aspire to be, but at my age, great books written by women over 60 give me hope. Diana Athill, Colette, Harriett Doerr, Marguerite Duras, Grace Paley, Elena Poniatowska, Jean Rhys, Mercé Rodoreda, to name but a few."

"I want people to look at the world and see what’s happening to it and take some action. This planet is so lovable. It is so various and so lovable, including all sorts of parts of the world that I’ve never seen, and I’ve seen more than most people. Just in what your eyes see, and how people live on the earth, it’s amazing, but it’s going to end if we don’t get our leaders to pay attention."

"Human beings come from several million years of development, which is quite wonderful. I have a lot of regard for what human beings have become. It took us a million years to learn how to speak to each other, and we did it. It took us another million years to work with each other, and we did it. I think the human race is remarkable…Until we live in a world where we stop abusing each other and the other creatures, we will not have reached our perfection."

"All over the world, she is read as a master storyteller in the great tradition: People love life more because of her writing."

"everybody should be involved, not just the artists. Carpenters, teachers, everybody."

"I can't see me writing an autobiography. I mean it seems so stupid. [Laughter.] You have to feel like you are telling the world something. I feel I'm doing it when I write the way I write. (1995)"

"We keep being mean-we're still mean to Vietnam. Mean to Cuba. Mean to Haiti. That kind of meanness is more discouraging to me than almost anything. You can put it in economic terms, you can make a high-class theoretical discussion about it, but there is so much mean revenge and malice against the victories of ordinary people. (1993)"

"I'm a writer but I'm also a person in the world. I don't feel a terrible obligation to write a lot of books. (1988)"

"I always think that the writer's role is to get off her or his ass and to get on the street and do something. But that answer does not satisfy people. But to me that's a very important thing. (1985)"

"I'm really involved in a lot of feminist anti-militarist work. I've linked things together with my anti-war stuff. Many feminists don't see it that way, by the way. There are a lot of divisions. Women say that's not feminism; feminism is equal rights, day care, battered women, abortion. But they don't see the connection between the patriarchy of militarism and the patriarchy of ordinary daily life. They don't like that patriarchy but they don't seem to mind so much the patriarchy of intervention in Central America. (1985)"

"My generation really grew up at a very scary time. This time is probably twice as scary, but since we didn't know this time was coming-the Second World War was coming, the Spanish Civil War was happening when I was in high school. Mussolini had invaded Ethiopia and made all those idiotic statements that are famous to this day. Like how beautiful it was to bomb the Ethiopians. The Italian kids in my school were in heaven, they were so delighted and proud they were fainting with joy. It was a scary time. Hitler was coming inch by inch by inch. I remember my parents talking about it. (1985)"

"One of the horses history rides is language. Fifteen years ago, maybe ten, in my fifties, I wouldn't have noticed the word mankind at all. And here in 1986, a six-year-old person heard the word in all its meaning. (1985)"

"I'd been writing poetry until about 1956, and then I just sort of made up my mind that I had to write stories. I love the whole tradition of poetry, but I couldn't figure out a way to use my own Bronx English tongue in poems. I can now, better, but those early poems were all very literary; they picked up after whatever poet I was reading. They used what I think of as only one ear: you have two ears, one is for the sound of literature and the other is for your neighborhood, for your mother and father's house. (1982)"

"All of art is political; if a writer says this is not political, it's probably the most political thing that he could be doing. That's a statement of an alienation problem. I would say that my interest in ordinary life and how people live is a very political one. That's politics; that's what it is. (1982)"

"Someone like Mary Daly doesn't even know how people live-but other women, I think they come from suburban lives or something like that, and no family. That's a certain kind of life but it's not general female life. (1981)"

"you're in love many times in your life, several times in one's life. And romantic love is very... a lot of fun, I don't want to knock it. With all the troubles that come afterward, and it may all be a lie and imposed on us, but falling in love is peachy. And if it can happen to you, boy, that's great. And if it doesn't, then by all means, you should stick to your friends. (1981)"

"I think people have writer's block because they don't really write things down. Their minds are too linear. You have blocks when either you have nothing to write about or you are just going dead ahead. If you just write, if you realize what your mind is and that it's always working, you're always wondering, you're always curious, you're always thinking about things. (1980)"

"People move around too much, and they become afraid to speak their own language. (1980)"

"I begin every class, for instance, with the reading of poems, of something somebody thinks is beautiful. Like sort of a ritual, like saying grace, or thank you God, or something. Somebody comes in and picks up a poem and reads a poem by George Herbert or reads a poem by almost anybody. Somebody read two pages of Faulkner yesterday. I want them to read something they love. So at least two poems are read at the beginning of class-or fiction. (1986)"

"I never think about marriage. I never write about marriage. I do think a lot about family. I think about love and family (1980)"

"the world may not last. Just the other day Ronald Reagan said that the arms race is necessary. He has to be insane. INSANE! And all the people listening. They have to be insane too. (1980)"

"I think a lot of what influences a writer is what you hear in the street, the language you hear, the way people talk, the way, the rhythms, the song, the language of your childhood. (1980)"

"I think the world is worse, but the people are better. I think this has to do with the revolutions of the 1960s and ’70s and the work we all did in that period. The important thing to remember about the Iraq war is that the whole world protested against it. For the first time in history, the whole world, not just me and my husband Bob, but the whole world came together to try to stop a war before it started. That had never happened before. I have a book with pictures of those protests from all over the world, from Africa, from Asia, from all over Europe. In every country people said, “No, no, don’t do it, don’t do it.” Whatever happens now, this fact is in the world. I think with those protests, we made maybe a couple of inches of progress. Some light flared there for a minute and that minute may be carried on. That’s why I say the world right now is a little worse, mostly because of what our country is doing, but the people are better because almost everywhere in the world there are people who are really thinking that they have some responsibility to make a peaceful world and to live decently. We’ll see what the next generation can do."

"Concentration is really a problem for me. To seize something. But when I really have a story I'm working on, I can work on it sitting in a train, going to Washington, any place, anywhere. It's totally absorbing. (1980)"

"(Why didn't you stick with poetry?) GP: I write a lot of poetry. I just never get good. Poetry is too literary a thing which comes from my love of literature rather than from my love of people, my feeling for people. (1980)"