"I think you start to think someone is crazy when you see him from a distance, and when he is too different it makes him a madman. But when you get closer to him, you start to see his point. All of a sudden it dawned on me that the cathedral was built for the greatest reason in the world. When I see the building, I think I also want to build it in my life. Not a building, but I want to build it with my wife. An invisible building, but one you've built with love, with thousands of details, so that when you reach the end of your life, you've left a physical metaphor that shows that love endures."