"It is not normal, it is not healthy for the person we are with to feel entitled to control our every move, what we do, who we talk to. It is a sign that something is wrong. These are problems. It is not interest, but obsession. There are many girls who find themselves being pursued by the same boyfriend, often precisely because they are very good, empathetic people. Sometimes they are manipulated, made to feel guilty. “Without you, I can't live, I can't study.” They feel guilty and continue to see them. But in doing so, they fuel the obsession. When a relationship ends, it ends."