Yen Santos

"Isa sa natutunan ko ay kapag ang isang tao, mahal ka na agad, big gestures agad ang ginagawa sa’yo, noong una, akala ko nakakakilig. Pero hindi, red flag ‘yun. Love-bombing ‘yun,” she said. “Takbo ka. Kasi hindi siya totoo sa sarili niya. Hindi love ‘yun. Part ‘yun ng manipulation. (One of the things I learned is that when someone claims that they love you right away and do big gestures, you would think it makes you giddy at first, but it’s not. It’s a red flag. It’s a form of love-bombing. Run. They are not true to themselves. That’s not love. It’s part of their manipulation.)"