"While unrecovered trauma is so often a prison of inflexibility, some people do have choices about how to respond. And…"

"Obviously I am not a clinician, but I have lived, loved, listened, felt, expressed, and observed. I have looked withi…"

"We know that usually a traumatized person has been profoundly violated by someone else’s cruelty, overreaction, and/o…"

"There is a strong element of shame in Trauma that makes thinking and behavior so inflexible. The person cannot accept…"

"Religion, as far as I could see, was chiefly concerned with “getting into Heaven.” A stockpile of prayers and could e…"

"Life is mainly grief and labour. Two things get you through. Chortling when it hits your neighbour, Whingeing when it…"

"People who identify strongly with their s frequently experience pleasure when they observe threatening members’ misfo…"

"The have a saying: “The misfortune of others tastes like honey.” The speak of joie maligne, a diabolical delight in o…"

"I coined the word "limerence." It was pronounceable and seemed to me and to two students to have a "fitting" sound. T…"

"The English language lacked a noun singular for the state of being love smitten, or having fallen in love, until Doro…"